Words or Actions? Which are more important…..
A word………. A single distinct meaningful element of speech or writing, used with others (or sometimes alone) to form a sentence and typically shown with a space on either side when written or printed….
An action……….. An action is the fact or process of doing something, typically to achieve an aim. A thing done; an act.
Words are a beautiful collection of letters which join together to form thoughts, feelings, statements, emotions……………………and all sorts of other things. But without the reciprocated actions, do they mean anything?
What is the purpose of someone saying they Will always be there for you, when in actuality the few times they are needed they are not there or “too busy”?
What is the purpose of someone saying I care about you so much, when in actuality they can go a whole week without checking on you just to see if you are okay?
What is the purpose of someone saying You mean a lot to me, when in actuality they could care less how you are doing?
People say so many things…………but should there words be taken as truth? ……….
Sometimes someone can break down in tears and tell you something, they can express how they feel and show a bit of anger at the fact that you don’t believe them….but what are words if they are not backed by actions?
I rather someone show me how they feel than to just say it………Because at the end of the day…….. Talk is very cheap. Whenever you just rely on what someone says you are only taking in half of the situation. It’s amazing how someone can say they appreciate you….yet you are the very Very VERY last thing on their mind. ..Sad but true. ……
I guess what I am trying to say is When someone SHOWS you their feelingsbelieve that more than you believe their words. Actions speak louder than words and Actions can reveal the truth that was cloaked in a beautiful melody of words for quite some time. Don’t constantly hold on to what someone else has said, yet they constantly disprove…………Don’t even put yourself through the heartbreak. If you notice something doesn’t match up, address it then and if it doesn’t get better then just forget about it. Don’t let negativity consume your life. Some battles just aren’t worth fighting……..
Have a great day,
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